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<![CDATA[BRISTOLREAD BOOKS - Blog]]>Wed, 03 Jun 2026 13:34:26 +0100Weebly<![CDATA[Ageing with Attitude : Downs Perspective]]>Thu, 21 May 2026 19:23:05 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/ageing-with-attitude-downs-perspectiveThis article appeared in the Spring 2026 edition of the FODAG (Friends of the Downs & Avon Gorge) magazine. Written by the past Chairman, Robert Westlake, it struck a chord with me, and with his kind permission I reproduce it here.

Right across the Downs, we’re surrounded by living proof that ageing isn’t about slowing down – it’s about showing up.  It’s about being out and about, with walking boots laced, minds sharp, and hearts open.

Our older residents are redefining what it means to grow older.  They’re not fading quietly into the background – today’s seniors are leading from the front, with grace, grit, and a healthy dose of attitude.  Maybe the Downs themselves have something to do with it, maybe something to do with the rhythm of the Downs – the steady pace of dog walkers, the laughter of grandchildren, the eleven am coffee break, the afternoon tea at the Downs Cafeteria or just the quiet measured conversations on benches – which all seem to reflect the beauty of ageing well.

Our elders carry stories that stretch across decades and continents, and they share them not to reminisce, but to inspire.  So many of our seniors are prepared to give generously of their time.  They mentor, they volunteer, they advocate.  Whether it’s serving a local committee or helping as volunteers, removing litter, helping monitor the goats or acting as Downs Ambassadors.  Their valuable contribution adds to what makes the Downs what they are.

Our seniors challenge assumptions.  Age doesn’t mean disengagement – it means deeper engagement, with time and perspective as allies.

Let’s be honest: The Downs’ older generation has definite style.  From the casually worn Barbour jackets and bold scarves to their cheeky humour, they wear their years like badges of honour.  Ageing with attitude is about staying curious and staying connected.  Whether it’s serving on a committee, giving of their time as volunteers, joining a local walk, attending a Downs Committee meeting, or simply striking up a conversation at the café, our elders make a vital contribution to the life of the Downs.  They remind us that ageing isn’t about retreat – it’s about reach.  It’s about learning new skills.  It’s about providing vital support.  It’s about reconnecting with old friends, and it’s about teaching and supporting younger generations.

It’s nice to consider our Seniors as a bridge between the past and the future.

Ageing with attitude on the Downs in some ways means living your legacy now.  It’s about showing up for neighbours, standing up for the Downs, and lifting up the voices of volunteers.

It’s about being visible, vocal, and valuable.

So here’s to the storytellers, the stewards, the spirited souls who make the Downs richer with every passing year.  You’re not just ageing – you’re leading.  And we’re all better for it.

Robert Westlake, age 77]]><![CDATA[Who remembers?]]>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 10:51:58 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/who-remembers

]]><![CDATA[Onwards and Upwards: A Heartening Start to the Year]]>Sat, 14 Feb 2026 09:17:22 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/onwards-and-upwards-a-heartening-start-to-the-yearWhat a wonderful way to begin a new year of BristolRead Books events — in the company of two thoughtful, engaged audiences who reminded me exactly why I care so much about telling this story.

January took me first to Westbury Park WI, where I had the pleasure of sharing the story behind Ladies’ Mile and the remarkable legacy woven into that small stretch of the Downs. It was a warm and lively evening, full of curiosity and generous conversation. Afterwards, I was touched to receive this message:

“Our ladies certainly enjoyed your talk and appreciated all the research you have done into this little piece of Bristol's history.”

That phrase — “this little piece of Bristol’s history” — perfectly captures the heart of the project. Ladies’ Mile may seem modest in scale, but its story connects philanthropy, social reform, women’s safety, and civic pride in a way that still resonates today.

Soon after, I visited St Andrews Ladies’ Group, where the welcome was equally warm and the discussion wonderfully searching. Their feedback was deeply encouraging:

“Thank you very much for presenting your talk last night. All the feedback I have had so far has been very positive, I think everyone very much enjoyed the evening. I was interested in Victoria’s story but also found the background to the preservation of the Downs very interesting. Although I have lived in Bristol and the surrounding area for over 30 years I had never heard that historical background set out. I hope your campaign to preserve the toilets continues onwards and upwards!”

I was especially struck by that reflection — that someone who has lived in Bristol for over 30 years had never heard the historical background to the preservation of the Downs laid out in this way. It reinforces my belief that our local history still holds stories waiting to be rediscovered — stories that deepen our understanding of the places we walk past every day.

These early talks of 2026 have set an uplifting tone for the months ahead. I remain enormously grateful to the groups who invite me, to the audiences who listen so attentively, and to everyone who continues to support the campaign through book purchases and invitations to speak.

If your organisation, society or group would be interested in hosting a Ladies’ Mile talk, I would be delighted to hear from you. There is something very special about sharing Bristol’s history in a room full of people who care about it — and judging by these first two events of the year, the story continues to travel well.

Onwards and upwards indeed.]]><![CDATA[An exciting end to 2025]]>Wed, 24 Dec 2025 21:26:24 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/december-24th-2025

I’m delighted to end 2025 by sharing some genuinely heartening news: the first phase of the refurbishment of the Ladies’ Mile loos is now complete.

Thanks to the organisation by Ben Skuse and the excellent work of Consort Services, essential repairs have been carried out to the roof (as far as could safely and sensibly be done), the exterior has been freshly repainted, new fencing installed, and the lighting greatly improved.

This milestone has only been reached because of the generosity, encouragement and practical support of so many people. What began as a shared hope has become visible progress, and that is something worth celebrating.

As we look ahead to the New Year, continued support through book sales and speaker engagements will help sustain the momentum and enable the next phase of work to begin.

With my heartfelt thanks to everyone who has supported, donated, attended talks, bought books, and cheered this project on throughout the year, I wish you all a very happy and peaceful Christmas.

]]><![CDATA[A hidden Bristol story captivates Nailsea]]>Wed, 12 Nov 2025 10:40:03 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/a-hidden-bristol-story-captivates-nailseaA heartfelt thank you to the Nailsea & District Local History Society for such a warm and enthusiastic welcome at my recent talk, The Story of Ladies’ Mile.

Around fifty members and guests filled the hall for what proved to be a lively and rewarding evening. I was delighted by the thoughtful questions, the interest in Victoria’s story, and the many conversations that followed — not to mention the cheerful queue of book-buyers afterwards!

It’s always encouraging to see how deeply this remarkable local story continues to resonate. My thanks again to everyone in Nailsea who came along and helped make the evening such a success.

If your group would like to host The Story of Ladies’ Mile — an illustrated talk uncovering one of Bristol’s most fascinating forgotten histories — please do get in touch. I’d love to share Victoria’s story with more local audiences.]]><![CDATA[A memorable evening]]>Fri, 07 Nov 2025 10:08:48 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/a-memorable-eveningA huge thank you to the Bristol Civic Society for such an enthusiastic response to my illustrated talk on Ladies’ Mile!

It was standing room only — a packed audience who listened intently, asked thoughtful and perceptive questions, and then proceeded to buy almost every copy of the book I’d brought with me. To crown it all, they made an extremely generous donation towards the restoration of Victoria Hughes’ remarkable ladies’ loo on Stoke Road.

It’s heartening to see so much local passion for preserving Bristol’s social history — and for honouring the memory of Victoria, whose compassion and quiet courage still speak to us today.

My sincere thanks to everyone who came, listened, and gave so generously. You made it a truly memorable evening!]]><![CDATA[At last, I can share some wonderful news!]]>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 15:38:37 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/at-last-i-can-share-some-wonderful-newsBristol’s Parks Department has confirmed that refurbishment work on the Ladies’ Mile loos will begin on 3rd November — funded entirely by the £7,500 raised through book sales, illustrated talks, and generous donations from those who share a fondness for this charming little building and its story.

The planned works include:

Repainting the green wooden fascia
Repairing the fencing
Cleaning out the guttering and replacing roof tiles
Restoring the outside lighting

Individually, these tasks may sound modest, but together they’ll transform the exterior and give the building a fresh lease of life. For years, the Ladies’ Mile loos have stood as a quiet but important piece of local heritage — a reminder of a time when even the simplest public facilities were designed with care and dignity.

When I began researching the story of the compassionate lavatory attendant who once worked here, I could never have imagined it would spark such heartfelt local support. Yet here we are: a community united by kindness, history, and a shared desire to look after what others might overlook.

This refurbishment is just the beginning — a visible sign of what your generosity has achieved. I’ll keep you updated as the work progresses, but for now, let’s celebrate this milestone.

From one little green loo, great things continue to grow. 🌿
“She believed that even the humblest place could be made welcoming, and that a kind word offered in passing could lift a weary heart.
How right she was — and how lovely that her little haven is being cared for once again.” 💚

]]><![CDATA[A warm welcome]]>Fri, 24 Oct 2025 10:35:13 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/a-warm-welcomeWhat a wonderfully warm welcome I received from the Rising Stars Ladies’ Group yesterday when I arrived to give my illustrated talk on Ladies’ Mile!
They told me afterwards how much they’d enjoyed the story — and I must say, I enjoyed sharing it with them every bit as much. To my delight, they not only bought a staggering number of books, but also made a generous donation — all in recognition of Victoria Hughes, the compassionate lavatory attendant whose remarkable life inspired the book.

Every penny will go towards helping to refurbish her very special ladies’ loo on Stoke Road — a fitting tribute to a woman whose kindness and dignity touched so many.

If your group would like to hear Victoria’s extraordinary story, I’d be delighted to bring my illustrated talk to you. You can find out more by contacting me at contact@ladies-mile.com or get in touch via the BristolRead Books page.]]><![CDATA[Forgotten Women, Hidden Histories: Ladies’ Mile Talks Now Booking!]]>Sat, 28 Jun 2025 16:25:59 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/forgotten-women-hidden-histories-ladies-mile-talks-now-bookingWhat can a cloakroom attendant on Bristol’s Durdham Downs teach us about the city’s social history? Quite a lot, it turns out.

I’m now giving illustrated talks based on the extraordinary memoir Ladies’ Mile by Victoria Hughes — a woman whose quiet job gave her a front-row seat to some of Bristol’s most intimate and overlooked stories.

For 33 years, Victoria served as the cloakroom attendant at the ladies’ public toilets near the Water Tower on the Downs. But this wasn’t just a job. It became a place of refuge, conversation, and confession for hundreds of women — sex workers, mothers, daughters, strangers — all finding a moment of pause and privacy in a changing city.

Victoria recorded much of what she saw and heard in her journals. The result is Ladies’ Mile, a book full of quiet compassion and sharp insight into the lives of working-class women from the 1930s to the 1960s.

In my one-hour illustrated talk, I’ll explore:

Victoria’s life and why her story matters
What her memoir reveals about Bristol’s hidden social history
The surprising journey of the book itself — and why I decided to reprint it
Archival photographs and visual history of the era
Q&A with the audience

Please contact me if you'd like to know more.
]]><![CDATA[Flowers and fountains, valleys and views]]>Fri, 25 Apr 2025 12:41:29 GMThttps://www.bristolreadbooks.com/blog/flowers-and-fountains-valleys-and-viewsInteresting and informative, this history trail takes around 90 minutes. You'll see ancient camps, stunning Georgian houses and you may even find a diamond! Be sure not to miss the Observatory to visit the Giant's Cave for an unique view of the valley below and to marvel at the Camera Obscura (still working and best seen on a sunny day).

clifton_down_history_trail.pdf

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